New Clark County program helps people build healthy relationships

The REACH Experience online course designed for singles and those in a relationship.
Lavern and Ronda Nissley, co-directors of Encompass Connection Center. BILL LACKEY/STAFF

Credit: Bill Lackey

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Lavern and Ronda Nissley, co-directors of Encompass Connection Center. BILL LACKEY/STAFF

Love is blind, and the early stages of a relationship can be too.

“We’re often blinded by those factors that, looking back, we can say, ‘I should have seen this coming,’” said Ronda Nissley, the co-director of Encompass Connection Center with her husband, Lavern.

The center has launched a new course called The REACH Experience specifically for individuals who want to know more about building healthy relationships and the skills they need to have one. The program, which stands for Relationship Engagement and Communication Habits, is designed both for participants who are single and those in a relationship.

The REACH Experience gives individuals the tools to be proactive, Ronda Nissley said. It also shows them how to avoid unhealthy relationships, whether or not they have had one in the past.

“I haven’t had the best experiences with relationships in my life,” said Morgan, who lives outside of Springfield and asked that only her first name be used.

She said the program provided her with skills regarding communication techniques, boundaries and more. She now has resources she can call upon in a variety of situations and with different people.

The program is focused on romantic relationships, but she said that much of what she learned can be applied to other types of relationships, too.

Topics covered include recognizing relationship patterns, resolving conflicts, understanding expectations, abusive relationships, family influences, the benefits of marriage and other issues.

Lavern and Ronda Nissley, co-directors of Encompass Connection Center. BILL LACKEY/STAFF

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The center also offers a program for couples, called The RINGS Experience. The success of that program was a segue into working with individuals, too, Lavern Nissley said.

“It does take two people to build a healthy relationship,” he said. “But if you have at least one who can change the dynamic in a relationship, that’s a good start.”

The REACH Experience costs $30 per person for about eight hours of online content, with additional fees for optional coaching either in person or via Zoom. Scholarships and discounts are available for eligible Clark County residents.

“It’s the education plus the coaching that makes this very potent and life-changing,” he said.

The center also is holding its annual Sweetheart Gala fundraiser from 6 to 9:30 p.m. Saturday at the Hollenbeck Bayley Creative Arts and Conference Center. With a goal to raise $20,000, the evening will include a catered meal, live music, dancing and other activities.

Most tables have been sponsored by organizations, but individuals who wish to attend can contact Encompass Connection Center at info@encompasscc.org or 937-250-1418 to inquire about tickets.

The Encompass Connection Center formerly was known as the Marriage Resource Center with offices on North Limestone Street. It receives funding from sources including Clark County Job and Family Services, The Turner Foundation and Springfield Foundation.

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